There’s no shame in looking for and securing a sugar daddy. Everyone needs their bills paid and there’s no shaming in how others earn their living (or their future spouse). Here are a few tips on how to find the perfect sugar daddy for you.
“Girls, girls, get that cash. If it’s 9 to 5 or shakin’ your ass. Ain’t no shame, ladies, do your thing. Just make sure you ahead of the game.” – Missy Elliot
You got bills due, sis. Like Missy said, “ain’t no shame just make sure you’re ahead of the game”.
First and foremost, let’s state the obvious: you should never feel forced to do anything out of your comfort zone and respect should be of utmost importance. That’s why it should be outlined from the very beginning what is expected from both parties in the sugar baby/sugar daddy relationship. Contracts are definitely recommended.
- Scout a Rich Location
Where else would you find a millionaire? Fairway? Wallmart? Kroger? The Piggly Wiggly? You’ve got to mingle. Come dressed to impress. The best spots are bars in luxury hotels. You know wealthy men are always traveling. This is the ideal location because there is no better sugar daddy than the one you don’t have to see often. You can also hit sporting goods stores (especially the golf section) and organic grocery stores or farmer’s markets for a vegan sugar daddy.
2. Sugar Daddy Apps
In the age of social media, everyone is using their platforms to secure a bag. This is the more common way to find sugar daddies. Signing up usually involves a strict registration process before you can even interact with prospective daddies.
3. Eat at High-Class Restaurants
This tip is for those who aren’t scared to eat, drink, and mingle alone. Look up your local Michelin-starred or celeb-fave restaurants and have a meal or two there. Don’t forget to dress to impress and get a seat close to or at the bar where you can mingle.
4. Bars in corporate America
After a hard, strenuous day in corporate America, wealthy suitors love to go out and have a drink. Pop into your local pub and have a drink or two with a single and ready-to-mingle stock broker.
We gave you the keys. Now it’s time for you to take charge. Be safe, set clear boundaries, and most importantly, secure your bag!
This article was written by Endía and adapted by Felicia K.