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Barry Diller Comes Out as Gay at 83 After 24-Year Marriage to Diane von Fürstenberg

A Candid Revelation from a Media Titan

In a heartfelt and honest admission, billionaire media mogul Barry Diller, 83, has publicly come out as gay. The revelation comes ahead of the release of his upcoming memoir Who Knew, where Diller explores the layers of his identity, career, and long-standing relationship with fashion icon Diane von Fürstenberg, his wife of 24 years.

A Love That Defied Labels

Diller recounts first meeting von Fürstenberg in 1974, describing a deep, magnetic bond that transcended traditional definitions. “We weren’t just friends. We aren’t just friends,” he writes. “Plain and simple, it was an explosion of passion that kept up for years.” Their romance, according to Diller, was very real—passionate, intimate, and enduring, despite his internal understanding of his sexuality.

Living Openly in Private

Barry Diller also details the delicate balancing act of being a gay man in the hyper-masculine world of corporate America. While never publicly closeted, he says he maintained a personal code: avoiding misrepresentation while never fully coming out. “It wasn’t courage—it was simply the minimum conditions of my conduct,” he reflects. “And I recognize it now as the opposite of courage.”

Diane von Fürstenberg’s Role

While von Fürstenberg has not publicly commented on her husband’s memoir or coming out, their relationship has long been viewed as one of respect, love, and mutual support. Known globally for revolutionizing women’s fashion with her iconic wrap dress, von Fürstenberg has remained by Diller’s side through decades of change, both personal and professional.

A Memoir That Explores Identity and Love

Who Knew promises to be an intimate and thoughtful reflection on a life lived at the intersection of power, passion, and personal truth. Diller’s story adds a complex, deeply human layer to conversations about sexuality, partnership, and identity—particularly within older generations and high-profile public lives.


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